To show a family member/close friend how important they are, you occasionally?
It's your birthday today, wohoo! Which would you want for your birthday?
You are feeling demotivated and tired from work/studies. All you really want is for your best friend/spouse/parents to?
The one word people closest to you would describe you as is
You feel the most secure with your spouse/future partner when
Your best friend is moving to a new place. How would you most likely help out?
What is Your Love Language?
Words of Affirmation
You are kind-hearted and positive, making Words of Affirmation your primary love language. To you, actions don’t always speak louder than words. Sincere and random compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important – hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten. You are moved by people’s words to you. Thus, kind, encouraging, and positive words are truly life-giving for your soul, especially if they come from your dear ones.
To you, hugs, holding hands, pats on the backs, thoughtful touches on the arms and kisses are so much better than any gifts, right? You are hopelessly romantic and could never imagine dating or marrying someone who is ashamed to show a little PDA. You think there is nothing sweeter than seeing an elderly couple or sisters holding hands together while walking. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial to you while physical abuse can be unforgivable and destructive for your soul. You value touch as a sense of security and belonging in any relationship. You understand that life is short and the best things in life are always free!
To you, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. You crave undivided attention from your loved ones or friends. You appreciate when people are really present for you and it makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Quality time also means sharing quality conversation and quality activities together. Regardless of what it it, you are just happy if someone is someone is able to prioritize you as part of their time.
Acts of Service
To you, actions will always speak louder than words. You would be thrilled if someone vacuums the floors, do the for you. That’s your definition of expression of love. You would do anything to ease the burden of responsibilities of your family members, spouse, close friends and just about everyone else. The words you most want to hear is: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and people burdening you with unnecessary work might drain you and make you feel unappreciated. You value serving people and you expect people to act that way towards you as well. Finding ways to serve speaks volumes to the recipient of these acts.
Nope, it’s not that you’re a materialistic person. Instead, you thrive and grow on the love, effort and thoughtfulness behind the gift. You are a thoughtful gifter yourself and you understand how a great gift could make a person’s day. You believe that in every perfect gift or gesture shows that you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous – so would the absence of everyday gestures. Above all, gifts are visual representations of love and you treasured them greatly.
Share your Results: